What Skills You Need to Set Yourself Apart

I have the chance to work with outstanding lawyers. They seem to be always focused on learning. Some time ago I read a book by Josh Waitzkin titled: "The Art of Learning." Most of you probably do not recognize his name. He was portrayed in the movie: Searching for Bobby Fisher.

Have you played chess? I actually was a serious player during law school, playing almost every weekend. Like many others, I bought books and memorized every possible opening. Unlike me, when he was first learning chess, Waitzkin's coach focused on endings not openings. Waitzkin says:

Children who begin their chess education by memorizing openings tend to internalize an entity theory of intelligence. Their dialogues with teachers, parents and other children are all about results, not effort. They consider themselves winners because so far they have won. In school they focus on what comes easy to them and ignore the subjects that are harder. On the playground, they use the famous: 'I wasn't trying' after missing a shot or striking out.

These children grow up and go to law school. In law school they learn what is necessary to do well on the exams. Then they learn what is necessary to pass the bar. They are great at left brain thinking, but have not exercised the right side of their brain. As young associates in law firms they do not think beyond the assignment.

In his book "A Whole New Mind" Daniel Pink includes a chapter titled: "Symphony." He describes symphony as "the ability to put together the pieces. It is the capacity to synthesize rather than analyze; to see relationships between seemingly unrelated fields; to detect broad patterns rather than to deliver specific answers; and to invent something new by combining elements nobody else thought to pair." This is the skill I find most young lawyers need to develop.

Daniel Pink suggests that one of the best ways to develop this skill is to learn how to draw. Pink went to a class based on Betty Edwards book "Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain." It turns out that drawing classes are not about learning to draw but rather about learning to see relationships.

So, what do you want to learn in 2010? What will you do to exercise the right side of your brain? Write down a list and have fun learning new things.
 

2010 Planning: Begin at 50,000 Feet

This is the last in my series on how lawyers I coach are planning for 2010. As you will see below, Kevin O'Neill uses David Allen's Getting Things Done approach. 

Through my work with Cordell, I am a big fan of the Getting Things Done (GTD) series of books by David Allen, and they are very helpful in the process of developing my business plan. The GTD principles compare your planning and implementation to an aviation system with different altitudes from “runway” duties (the literal next step tasks needed to move the project forward) to the 50,000 foot-level where you are focused on the mission and vision for your life. I’ve adapted the GTD principles to my own needs in developing long-term goals and objectives of which a business plan is just one element.

So working down from 50,000 feet, begin by understanding who you want to be and what you want to become.  My vision and guiding principles have been in place for 15 years and will remain the focus for who I want to be professionally and personally. If you don’t have the vision and principles in place, planning for the year will be difficult to conceive and implement.

The next level down (40,000 feet) define your roles in daily life. For me, those 2010 roles are Husband, Father, Friend, Self, Citizen, Attorney, Manager, Leader and the nature of each of those roles are evolving over time. That’s true at work where my roles as Attorney, Manager, and Leader in 2010 are fundamentally different than what they were in 2008. It’s true outside of work as well because what my wife, children, and friends need in 2010 is not what I gave them in 2008. You must spend some time thinking about what you would define as success for each of these roles in 2010. You also must consider how you are going to allocate the 8,760 hours you have in a year between these roles because we know the hours spent succeeding as “Attorney” often come out of the time we wish we had for “Father” or “Friend.” My final “business” plan for 2010 will have a page for items related to “personal issues” to go with a page on purely “business issues.” I don’t necessarily share the personal goals/plan with the folks at work but having the personal documented along with the professional makes it easier to make sure work won’t swallow my real life over time. Also, that’s the part where discussion with your significant other is key – you can’t have support for a plan that’s not shared and accepted.

At 30,000 feet are your multi-year goals - these are the mileposts to making your long-term vision a reality. For lawyers, we have lots of multi-year goals we are working towards: make partner, make equity partner, have a book of business worth $x, write a book on my topic of expertise, etc.  Your personal life is full of those goals as well: Get married, have children, send your parents on vacation to Europe, buy a home, retire with $x in the bank, etc. Do you have these goals on paper somewhere? They don’t have to be in your 2010 business plan but they should exist on paper somewhere even if you have to write them as part of this year’s business plan development process. Are there elements of your work/personal plans for 2010 that you can point to and say “this is helping me reach the multi-year goal of [fill in the blank]?”

Lower down, at 20,000 feet, you have the various publics to whom you are responsible: clients, partners and colleagues at work, family, friends, your church, and yourself at home. There’s lots of turbulence at this level because the needs of these people are ever-changing and that alters your obligations to them. Do you know who is being served by each of the goals in your business plan? Professionally, what are your clients expecting you to do in 2010 that they would define as success and is that in your plan? In my 2010 business plan, every client I currently have could read the plan, point to a specific bullet and say “That’s what you are trying to do for me next year” yet only about 25% of the bullets in the business part of the plan are specifically focused on current client goals.

At 10,000 feet, you have projects, defined broadly as anything requiring more than one step to accomplish. Most clients will have lots of projects over the course of a year (Ex: association conference where I will speak, legal memo that needs to be researched and written, etc.) but none of those projects are likely to be something you want in a business plan. The same is true with the “runway” or next-step tasks needed to move forward on various projects. Yes, you are going to have to implement your business plan via projects and tasks but that level of detail is for a project/task list not a business plan. Keep the plan focused on measuring success for the coming year and how that success will help you achieve longer-term personal and professional goals.

In developing my plan, I try to follow a few rules:

  1. Be specific, measurable and attainable – Say you want to bring in a specific amount of new business to the firm in 2010 rather than saying “I want more clients.” Virtually every bullet point in my business plan can be reviewed in a year and a “Yes” or “No” answer given for whether or not I achieved the goal.
  2. Stretch goals should be evident – Yes, I want my goals to be attainable but many of them should also be currently beyond my grasp. If I set a goal to get $X in new business, which is double my best year, and I only get 80% of $X, I will be pleased with the result and will still have grown from the failure of falling short.
  3. Don’t plan to last year – The economic turmoil should be all the evidence you need to know you can’t count on last year being like next year. Much of your plan’s ambitions should be focused on the new and improved, on growing your expertise, on building your reputation for clients and colleagues.
  4. Focus on doing what only you must do – In order to free up time to do the new things and grow your practice to meet your plan’s goals, you have to give up much of what you did in the past. Especially as you grow professionally, you have to look for opportunities to say “My responsibility here is to see that the project or task is done but I don’t have to do it myself to fulfill that responsibility.”
  5. Helping others will always help you – Just as your plan should include something your clients could point to and say “that’s what you are doing for me this year,” your teammates should be able to read your plan and see the same thing for them. If you are a partner, what does your plan say about supporting the next generation of talent at your firm or your partners as they try to reach their goals? Does your plan support your practice group’s goals or the firm’s goals? You want the best talent at your firm working with you so you can achieve your goals. If you are spending time focused on “only what you can do” you are naturally pushing down work that helps those working with you grow. If you are advising others on how to meet their own professional goals, you will be building the network and culture needed for your own success. Make helping others achieve their goals part of your plan.
  6. Don’t be afraid to share – A plan that only you see is one you aren’t committed to achieving. If your department head or managing partner is not aware of your goals and ambitions, how can she evaluate your past efforts fairly and how can she support you in 2010 as you try to grow? Has your significant other reviewed the plan and laughed, groaned, or offered input? Has your mentor or good friend who can push you looked at the plan and offered suggestions?

In the end, what I have is a series of documents: one page that expresses my vision/mission statements, my core values and the adjectives I would hope others would use to describe me in their daily interactions with me. This document is more than a decade old. I have a set of long-term goals (5 years or longer) on a page and for almost 20 years I’ve had what is now commonly called a “bucket list” of about 100 life experiences I am pursuing (Ex: work took me to China last year and allowed me to check off the goal of standing on the Great Wall). My “business plan for 2010” is two pages – one for work goals and one for personal goals - and is below those bigger picture items listed above. The business plan is just the 2010 steps towards a longer-term vision. A paycheck won’t motivate me as well as the knowledge that what I’m doing today is a building block for the future I want.

2010 Planning: Organize into Categories of Your Life

During December I am focusing on Planning for 2010 and including ideas from lawyers I coach. 

Tricia DeLeon is a partner in the Dallas Bracewell Giuliani office. I have been working with her the last several months. As you will see below, her planning focuses on her life priorities.

I am preparing my 2010 business plan by listing my big goals and then thinking about what small steps I can do each quarter to achieve my goals. I like Cordell's approach of organizing and dividing my business plan into several categories. My plan will include 7 categories: (1) Spiritual; (2) Family; (3) Mental/Personal Growth; (4) Firm/Professional Development; (5) Physical; (6) Fun; and, (7) Financial. I will have a few big goals listed under each category that I hope to accomplish in 2010. Some of the categories I've selected may not seem relevant to a "business" plan, but for me to succeed in my profession, I also have to achieve balance and growth in other areas of my life.

This year I'm also thinking about who can help me and keep me accountable for achieving my goals. For instance, I want to run at least half of the San Diego marathon on June 6, 2010. To accomplish this, we've organized a group of 9 women from our office who are committed to running the full marathon. We have a training schedule that will begin in January. In addition to our individual training, we plan to run together on Saturday mornings. If I have a friend or group working with me to achieve a goal, the more likely I am to do it. And, similar to the training schedule for the marathon, I hope to take small, consistent steps toward accomplishing my big goals in all 7 categories for 2010.

2010 Planning: Planning with Your Husband/Wife

During December I have focused on planning for 2010 and shared ideas from lawyers I coach. Staci Riordan is a Fashion Law lawyer I coach with Fox Rothschild's Los Angeles office. In a future blog post I will share with you some of the innovative ways Staci is using social media. Here is Staci's approach to planning for 2010.

I printed out copies of my most recent business plan, which I did in August 2009 when we started working together. I also printed out copies of my first two sets of 90 day goals we did together. I was pleased to see that I have been regularly accomplishing my short-term goals, probably because I kept them small and manageable and am making progress towards my long term goals. The one item on my list I am most proud of accomplishing is launching my fashion law blog. I am spending a great deal of time on this so I realized I needed to revise my business plan to account for this new activity.

While working on my plan at home later that week, my husband came into the room. A light bulb went off in my head. I asked him to sit down with me and review my plan for feedback and suggestions. Because my job is important to help support our family, I thought it was important to share my goals and dreams with him, and my plan for accomplishing them. It was also a great tool in helping him understand how I spend my time when I am not at home with the family. Planning together this way led to a wonderful discussion and has brought us closer. Also, we did his plan next (which is a first for his personal training business - see www.mytrainingtime.com). I proud to say that he is considering launching a blog too! So not only has making a plan helped my professional life, but it is working well for my home-life as well. I am always taking about what Cordell says and I think Chris feels like he knows him by now. We read many of the same books (Chris is reading Crush It! and I am reading Who's Got Your Back) and discuss the parts we like best. It is a nice to be able to share this with your spouse, even when we work in two very different jobs.

As I look towards 2010, I hope to continue to grow my practice through speaking engagements, branding, social media and old fashion networking as well as providing outstanding legal services for my clients. I am not a patient person so I constantly struggle with the rational concept that takes time to build a practice. I also tend to focus on the trees and forget to look up at the forest. At this time of year, it is nice to reflect on what you do, how you do it and who you do it with. I am thankful that I work at a job that I love and able to work with clients that I actually like. I am passionate about the fashion industry and am grateful my firm believed in me enough to encourage me and provide with the support needed to launch this unique practice area.

2010 Planning: Reviewing Last Year and Looking to Improve Next Year

I am continuing to post ideas lawyers I coach are using to prepare their 2010 plan. 

Jodi McDougall, a partner with Cozen O'Connor in their Seattle, office recently shared her approach with me:

I'm planning for next year by first reviewing this past year. I'm going through my goals from last year and seeing what I've achieved as well as what I didn't. For those goals I achieved, I give myself a pat on the back, or better yet a few hours at the spa. I also look around me and see those who helped me to achieve my goals. For example, my parents who are always there to step in and love my kids when my husband and I accidentally schedule a deposition the same day. I express my thanks through a note, a kind gesture or a gift. I let them know that I recognize their contributions to my success.

I also look to last year's achievements and determine what I want to do again and how to improve on those goals. For example, with two small children I had stopped taking time for exercise, thinking I didn't have time for such luxuries. Cordell reminded me that successful people take good care of themselves. Last year, I ran a half marathon in June. This year my goal is to run at least two half marathons. I'm already signed up for one!

For those goals I didn't reach, I try to figure out why I fell short and either set the goal again or adjust it to make it more reasonable and achievable. I remind myself of how good it feels to achieve the goals I set and give myself a fresh start and let go of my past shortcoming.

Finally, I will take some time at the end of the year to relax and enjoy my family. I recharge my batteries so that I will be ready to go when January 1, 2010 rolls around.

 

2010 Business Plan: Look Forward and Work Backward

In my last two blog posts, I have discussed why you should have a plan for 2010 and my thoughts on how to get started. I have asked lawyers I coach to share with you how they are preparing their 2010 business plan.

James J. O'Keeffe, a new partner with Gentry Locke Rakes & Moore, recently shared with me how he is preparing his 2010 business plan. 

I’m preparing my 2010 business plan by looking forward and working backward. Based on our coaching sessions and some of the books that you’ve recommended, I’ve got a list long-term goals defining where I’d like to be in five and ten years in each of my roles—father, husband, productive lawyer, client developer, etc. With those in mind, I’ve decided where I’d like to be at the end of 2010 with respect to each role. I used those targets to identify goals that I’d like to accomplish next year. I tried to make sure that those goals are objectively quantifiable, challenging, and more or less within my control.

I know that some people find it very useful to break their yearly plans down by hours, quarters, weeks, and so on. That doesn’t do very much for me. With two small kids, a wife who works, an old house, and a busy job, yearly planning beyond the “big rocks” is just too ambitious right now. If something is important, I will get it done. If not, there’s no sense in planning for it, anyway. As the year progresses, I do plan my activities on a weekly basis and review my goals quarterly. That probably mitigates the lack of precision in my up-front planning. But trying to sit down right now and figure that I have x hours of investment time, to be divided across y activities over z weeks would likely only set me up for failure. It would also drive me nuts.

Finally, I’d be remiss if I didn’t note that I am lucky enough to work at a firm that gives me significant freedom when it comes to annual planning and goals.